Sunday, April 09, 2023

The HIKE

A few years later

I appreciate everything

The group that

Willing

Join me in the crusade


I forever grateful

The group that went through the trauma with me

Although deep down I never admit it

But this is my take

Although they don't realize


But hey, I told myself

This was never about anyone

or myself


It was getting the awareness or milestone 

For a person getting 30's


Do I want to spend the rest of my life

with her?


I was searching for the answer every night before I sleep

And

Yes


She brightens my day

Everyday

She was weird enough that made me feel comfortable

She sees my vulnerable side every time

She calls out my bullshit

She willing to stay

that all matters 


I damn lucky enough to have her

I love U




Monday, January 02, 2023

Some change

Happy new year, first

Reading back to my previous post
I smile
Smile because I knew
What I said 3 months ago, is an insanity check
Thanks to my previous self
I'm still on the same course, to be better

Recent
A better friend, that I never thought of
Blessed, and I grateful

I guess I try to make up those missed time
As I should be

I was emotional once, that can't change
I hope, I'm better now
And I felt that rational thinking I need it from years ago

Funny
The most rational-thinking friend I have 
Recently doing a lot of irrational decisions as I was years ago
I smirk
But I help anyway
Because I know how that darkness will look like if I let it be
I don't want another person to go into the abyss, that I went through years ago
But really up to him
And I hope he found happiness
Just because he is one of my best friend
The friend that I need when the moment of time

2AM
Father hasn't slept, he missed mom
Not because I guess, but because of his act
I'm powerless, to help him
The only way I can help him
Is to make sure, every damn time
He is feeling good and better
I couldn't imagine what he going through and I hope he found his way

Last drink for me, close to drunk for my body system
Closing here now and then
I wish and hope
Is a good year for me

If you reading this
Happy new year to you too
Wish you a great year ahead

Sunday, October 09, 2022

Miles

Challenges for 1 song blog
Miles

A new job
A new calling
I hope

Not much a leader most of my life
At least the past few years made me be
And I am thankful (R.Y.)

The song is close to the end
But my mind still constructing the sentences

Cyberpunk 2077: Edgerunner is an epic series
That made me made write a blog
At least

But I doubt
At this point
Anyone will revisit this blog anymore

A dead blog anyway

5.40AM now
Why am I still here?
Just to prove I'm still young to stay up all night?

Nah
Raining outside
With headphone
Hear nothing but the song Let You Down

FUNNY
There was a time
I do believe, what you said
But same as always
When I need you
You're not there
Not even try

Then I realize 
All this time
ALL THIS TIME
Just
Nothing but mirage

But now
It really doesn't matter

I glad
We didn't 
Or I didn't 
Fate or not
I'm glad we really didn't 
And I still wish
You found happiness

It's okay
I tried to succeed the dream you wanted
But
The choice is not on me but on you

Maybe this might be the last time
I refer to you as you
Maybe
After a few recent chat
There is no more us or you anymore
One reluctant help
I just knew
It just still you you
To me

And that just plainly put it
We're always miles distance
And I don't blame

It just clarifies everything
Let's bury deep
And I hope
I never dig it up again

Thursday, March 03, 2022

Some new years

Sometime
Life just hits you
and they dare to say 
lightning never strikes twice

Just after two months
My other half mom
Left the world

The feelings of losing someone
It just hit again

Then 
We fell into a mess

We're all in a mess

We grasp so hard but it slips through so easily

I'm so mentally drained and tired
I told myself maybe all this
All this is a test
You know eventually
someone close to you'll leave
But you chose to ignore
because you know that not going to happen at the moment
Until
It happens

Then my love and I
We hit the lowest point of our life
I guess
We didn't properly manage our communication 
There comes our biggest argument since we knew each other

I guess
I always tried to avoid any conflict
or anything things that I'm really not confident of

But this had to change
and I trying

Hope the next update will be a fruitful and joyful ones
See ya

Saturday, November 20, 2021

Fear

I never understood the actual fear
Until
Someone close to you 
Left
Without a sign
I guess
I'm too afraid to face it

It's been 
Two months
Since mom left
23 September
Date I couldn't forget

Father been grieving in his own way

Brother tried stepping up his game 

Sister same old same but I just hope
She will better than me, future

It's not easy for the pass few months

I been trying to be strong
Keep it together
Mentally prepare for anything

But

It's not enough

Some day I just told myself
Or worst lie to myself
That everything going be alright
Which not

I'm over stress
For everything

Mom
I just hope
Your afterlife
Got a better family

Wednesday, March 24, 2021

At this point

 At this point

You wonder how many failures you have been

Failure just another reason you get back up to your game

Life is like a game

Either you get cheat code on start

or you build from start

But you'll never too late


At the modern age

When you start to compare yourself to others

Means you desire

Desire something

Something more

Pursuit that goal is something next to your mind

But never

Ever

Defy your heart

Your origin idealism

 

Sunday, October 18, 2020

Too much recent update to update

Hey

You

Yes

Is you

Don't turn away yet

Seem like 4 of June I update once

Sorry too much of myself?


Recently I discover

The inevitable

Wake

Work

Eat

Sleep

If I want, drunk maybe

But I don't like the drunk version of myself

But again

I enjoy it


At this hour

I should sleeping

But with alcohol

I was wide awake

Look at my top right 

A Window

It might tell me

If Sun is coming up


I'm alright if you ask me

I should sleep

But sometime

Thought

Purpose

Issue and solution 

Prevented my sleeping


Sometimes

I can sleep like Hypnos

Maybe too much of Hades (A game consist Greek mythology I recently get addicted about)


But anyway

I should sleep


If so, why you update the blog?

Maybe I just like to write stuff that I didn't show in front of people

Even my closest friend or family


Maybe when drunk it really can show myself

But until then

I keep all this to myself


Goodnight world.


Thursday, June 04, 2020

停留

4年前
似乎大家的博客最后更新
都停留在4年前
而自己接近2年没写了
说好“封”博客呢?

但还是爱写
还是回到了这里

这些年

说不出的蜕变
说不出的感慨
说不出的当下

回想2012年
那是8年前
刚中学毕业的自己
依然爱写博客
舒坦自己的情感

因为在这里
才能真正的释放自己的情绪
奔放自己

为什么将近2年没写
因为
找到了自己的情感磁铁
真心感谢博客那些年的感情抒发

然而我依然心系这博客
好吧
以后
至少一年更新一次吧
虽然没人读

至少是自己的心历

问自己

生活与理想
接近了吗?
不然但需加倍努力

美好?
瞳景

幸福?
依然

成长?
每天


Friday, August 03, 2018

难得的假期+更新

Hi! 
你好

对不起
相隔6个月的更新
希望你时不时等待我可能的更新
这六个月
我都过得很好
酒喝少了
哈哈
这个事实
现在想更新也是因为明天(其实是今天)对我来说是一个假期
加上喝了一些威士忌
听着The Killers 的音乐
很有感觉   就想更新了
若是让她知道我那么迟睡觉   又要被骂了

今年的MCFA坐板凳了
或许我真的往后退了很多步
或许像她说的   我的重心不再是足球
当家里都过得去的时候
足球是我唯一能逃避一切的出路
现在   家里差不多都依赖着我   加上弟弟的不争气
我真的无可奈何
好在我一直都是省吃俭用
超级会忍一切的诱惑
加上不爱花钱

我现在能体会什么叫以家庭为先的感觉
当你有所有诱惑在等待着你时
你知道   唯有放下诱惑  才能拯救他们
当你非常清楚自己是一个
对自己人爱的人心很软的人
你唯有妥协
一切
所有的一切
只为帮助他们
牺牲自己

25年
我觉得我有资格说自己怎样的一个人
我知道
牺牲这个词
对我自己不陌生
因为
任何必须牺牲自我的情况下
我都会找一个原因
让自己的牺牲是为了更好的未来
这是为自己洗脑
也是让自己好过一些

4点了
刚和妈妈谈了家里的状况
然后威士忌还不够   我决定加注

和妈妈谈了
发现
我必须加倍努力
去争取更好的职位
我会说职位是因为
有一个导师曾说过  “让自己增值  等于让自己的薪水增值”
而我选择 相信  知识等于财富
简单的工作日   并不能带来增值
唯有突破自己的极限才能有更好的未来
我希望那天我能看到

妈妈不再负债  看到她要的东西我能买给她
爸爸能任意花钱他想要的东西
而我能不顾虑就买我想要的东西
我真的希望有一天 我能做到这样

25了
25许多人都开始筹钱买屋子了
而我才开始做工
我从来都不相信什么第一桶金
因为我觉得那是愚蠢的目标
为了钱而设的目标

现在的我
时常载一些队友
一些乳臭未干的小朋友
让我的觉得
这是对感恩的人的回报
当你受恩惠
你想把你感受的恩惠传到下一个人
你不知道这个会不会成功
但你只会对自己说
当你有能力
你就尽力
问心无愧
那是最好的答案

睡觉吧
5点了
等下还有MCFA的比赛
休息然后再战

Wednesday, February 28, 2018

意外

有些意外
不说不说
就成了历史,过去

凌晨3点01分
开始写我的接近一年后的部落格

刚从Langkawi旅行回来
一个总结来说
这个旅行 比起以前
开心很多
虽然
喝的酒比较少
开拓视野的旅程变多
一直都希望和家人一起开拓新的视野
着旅行圆了梦

照片未能及时洗出来因为技术上的问题
不过我都打算放一些可以看的到insta

但突然想写不是因为这个
而是因为
去年那个时候
我决定不再追逐
自己一直深爱却不被爱的人
我不怪她
怪就怪
有本事喜欢别人 没本事让人喜欢你
我希望 那一年 这一年 她都安好
虽然我们没常联络
真心希望她能很好

过去
我说过的话
我给的承诺
我们对彼此的期待
我们给对方的承诺

对我而言
是一种成长
对你又是怎样的体验呢?
我想知道

可是
每当我们见面时
彼此都带着一些不想让对方知道的面具
隐瞒
深怕因为说了而给对方留下能判断自己印象
而毁了自己的形象

然而
当我们再一次见面时
彼此都有了心上人

可能
一直以来
我只想安定且找一个能和我疯狂的人
而我找到了
而你

而你
我忘了
去完全爱你的感觉是怎样的
完全去猜测和感受你的情况
是怎样的
我忘了
该怎么去感受
该怎么去观察

而你的感情
我希望你能找到你的
不再乱
不再慌
只求你拥有简单的幸福
你想要的爱情

的确
无可否认
那些年
我爱过你
深深的爱过你
说白了
自己一厢情愿

现在
虽不爱
心底总还是会有你
可能这个就是别人说的
真的深深爱过的烙印
而这个烙印
不疼反而珍惜
谢谢有了这段经历
才知道怎样对待接下来的感情

现在3点59分
写完
睡觉
几时再更新
我真的不知道

你就别等
因为
我开始往前跑了